tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-73595827935296204572024-03-13T11:42:36.988-04:00Info EnchiladaSocial media is rocking our world, and guess what? It's not even close to being done. There's so much cool stuff going on, so much to learn and this is my thoughts and lessons learned. My goal is to explore how to effectively get the most value out of social media. This blog will cover everything from effective use, program management, scheduling, team dynamics, types of collaboration products, architecture considerations, future directions, etc. In other words, the whole enchilada!Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-24311813661265829292016-05-31T11:35:00.002-04:002016-05-31T15:55:04.331-04:00Risk Management: Are You Free?<div style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: georgia, serif; font-size: 18px; font-stretch: inherit; line-height: 32px; margin-bottom: 32px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">
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It's a running joke with the secretary at my dentist's office: "Mr. Donath, can we see you at 8:00 am on Tuesday in 6 months?" "Well, I'll have to check, not sure what I'm doing them." "Oh, I know what you'll be doing, you'll be here!" Usually when she asks this question the season will be the opposite of what it is now. If it's summer, there will be 2 feet of snow on the ground then. That's the trick right? The context then will be totally different. Heck, I could have a different job, could be living in a different, house,... Hey, I could be dead! Crazy? It happens. Predicting the future is tricky. In the book, The Black Swan, Taleb cites an example where some government agency was predicting the price of a barrel of oil for 25 years. If I'm not sure what I'm doing at 8:00 am on Tuesday 6 months from now, how is someone going to predict the price of oil 25 years from now? Stop for a moment and catch the seriousness of this: here's a government agency with a bunch of very smart people who are paid to know oil and the US energy sector is watching these predictions closely (and there probably a whole chain of people watching the energy sector). So what these guys say has a big impact. They said that oil wouldn't go over $27 a barrel over that 25 year time period. Wait for it. The price went over $27 in the <em style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">first</em> 6 months. We are really bad at predicting.</div>
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Which leads me to risk management. I'm speaking of risk management on IT projects. We're told to predict (1) the probability of occurring, (2) probability of impact, and (3) timeline for impact. There are other things to capture, but let's start with that. Let's just pick one, probability of occurrence. In the oil example above, they gave the probability of occurrence of going over $27 / barrel in 25 years as low. It turned out to be very (VERY) high. We are really bad at predicting. If we are, how do we perform risk management? There's a lot to talk about here, but let's start with <em style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">who</em> should do the predicting. Don't confuse this with who can identify a risk, anyone on a project can identify a risk. We'll talk more about that in another posting, but let's talk about who should do the predicting. Apgar's book, Risk Intelligence, has five criteria for assessing someone's ability to identify risk and the first is "How frequently do your experiences relate to the risk?" Let's say the risk has to do with system performance on a cloud solution. Do you have experience with cloud solutions? Do you have experiences with performance problems? Do you have experience with measuring performance in a cloud environment? If your a project lead, then finding someone who scores higher on this assessment will be important. If you have the experience, go for it. If you have a general feeling about the technology, better find someone who has more experience. Yes, experience can be hit by a black swan too, but it is a step in weeding out possible error and refining the risks.</div>
Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-85360557692431188642013-11-15T11:20:00.001-05:002013-11-15T11:20:26.827-05:00Agile Development MythAnother presentation on agile process, another set of misconceptions. The agile process is not just for software development, although it works very well there. You could plan a birthday party using agile development. The agile process is a project management tool, not just a software development tool. When we hear that agile development is just for software development, we need to look deeper. Agile development focuses on the delivery of specific products in a 3-6 week period. Software is a specific product. Many times the system life cycle is so full of huge work products in the form of documents that no wonder someone thinks that it's just good for software. If a system design is a huge document, then of course we can't come up with a copy in less than 6 weeks. But if we see the work product a server design, a network design, etc, then these can become chunks that can be delivered in that timeframe. Identifying the chunk of work is hard, but the reward in productivity can be worth it.<br />
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Another problem is that classic waterfall processes created a lot of work that wasn't really used. Agile came along and said, 'lets focus on just what we need'. So agile projects start popping up. The folks who define the waterfall processes then say that they need to add stuff to the agile process - basically bogging down the agile process with everything that made the waterfall process ineffective. Ugh. But we do need to be careful: there are things that agile projects have overlooked in the name of getting systems out quickly that make the operations and maintenance of the system difficult. So we can't just throw out the waterfall process.Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-26100185840397364992013-11-14T11:03:00.002-05:002013-11-14T11:03:50.535-05:00Twitter and $25BAll I can say is: you've got to be kidding. I like twitter. I love twitter. Twitter does some things very, very well. But $25?? It's not a cure for cancer, doesn't reduce poverty, provide healthcare to poor, etc. I think we're looking at another dot com bubble?Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-5819120876997708462013-11-14T10:58:00.002-05:002013-11-14T10:58:23.120-05:00AssumptionsAnyone ever get mad at you because they had an assumption that they didn't communicate with you? This is a problem in personal life as well as professional. Never goes over very well. This is why the use of Log Frames in projects can be very useful. What are the assumptions that get us from the project inputs to the outputs? What are those things outside your control that could impact your delivery? Also, when creating a project schedule in MS Project, add assumptions to the Notes section of a task. Always be aware of what your assumptions may be. The odd thing is that when we have assumptions about someone else, we think that they're obvious - 'hey, don't you think it's reasonable...', 'isn't it obvious that you should have...'. Funny how that works...Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-38221046540173384362012-05-09T15:34:00.001-04:002012-05-09T15:36:20.983-04:00Book Review: Tribes, by Seth Godin<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Just finished reading Seth Godin's book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Tribes-We-Need-You-Lead/dp/1591842336/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1336585054&sr=1-1">Tribes</a>. Mr. Godin is a fantastic speaker and a wealth of ideas, so I was pretty eager to read this book.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The book spends a lot of time dealing and challenging our fear for starting something new. It reassures that we can start - do something. It makes the point that we don't need to climb Mt. Everest at the first go, but we do need to act. This is a great reminder: start something, do something.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was surprised by how many references to religion were in the book. The problem is that the book doesn't define it's terms, casting a very wide net as to what it means by religion to include formalized religion as well as corporate culture. This too isn't useful. Some of the greatest 'rule breakers' in history were from religions. Abraham leaves rich community and goes to no where. Jesus turns the leaders of that day, both religious and secular, on their heads. Ditto Paul. Martin Luther tweets his 99 thesis on the church door and starts the reformation. The puritans, a group of counter cultural young people hire a ship and start a different kind of community in a place no one knows anything about. Now THAT's some serious rule breaking. Each of these people or groups had a hugely profound impact for centuries. Godin doesn't differentiate between effective and ineffective religion - just throws them all into the same box, but even religions differentiate in their own doctrines what constitutes good vs. bad religion. I get it: any system of rules that people blindly follow is bad, but to use 'religion' that broadly isn't accurate, isn't helpful, and subtly fosters a new racism.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The book makes a really big deal out of leadership serving - that was very refreshing to hear. The leader of a tribe needs to think about how to give to that tribe and how to let the tribe give to each other. Very powerful. I'm going to be giving a lecture this summer and it got me thinking: how can I give to that group of students, other than just talking at them? Something to think about. Godin also makes a very strong case for you being a leader. You don't need to be a national or international rock star, but you do count, you do have something to offer, so get off your butt and show some leadership! He really makes the case that you can lead something.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-81736220716375924562012-05-07T11:17:00.004-04:002012-05-07T11:17:49.268-04:00Sharepoint: My Site Profiles<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When deploying sharepoint 2010, it's really important to review the profile attributes offered through My Sites especially if your organization has international users. International privacy laws are different from those of the US. For example, posting a picture of a team can violate UK laws, if the people in the photo haven't given permission to post that picture. Heck, we post pictures of people all the time in Facebook in the US! There are two options with My Sites, one is to preset profile attributes to privacy setting or simply to make My Sites inaccessible to international users.</span>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-83346040091182476162012-05-04T16:38:00.001-04:002012-05-04T16:38:24.787-04:00Meetings: Background Noise<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I just got off of a conference call where something was flapping and ticking in the background on someone’s phone – annoying. Distracting. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lots of meetings these days take place over the phone. If you’re on one of these virtual meetings, watch your own background noise. Dogs barking, fans blowing, wind coming in from the window over speaker phone, kids bursting in, keyboard clicking next to speaker, and on it goes. Here’s what happens: we hear a strange noise on the conference call and our brains wonder what it is. Our attention gets pulled off what’s going on. Then you get annoyed, wondering if other people hear that noise. Then finally someone says, “please put your phone on mute.” By that time, the people in the meeting have lost focus – not in a big way, but enough.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Solution? Use a headset. Also, if you’re not sure if your environment is quiet enough, do a test call with a friend.</span>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-79621283056245278472012-05-04T14:13:00.002-04:002012-05-04T14:13:16.405-04:00Humor on the Job<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Part of my job is to get requirements for systems we're deploying. Part of that is to document those requirements and those documents can be long a boring. So one day I thought I'd put the following requirement into the document:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One of those things you do to make yourself laugh. I also thought I'd see who read the document. Well, my colleagues got a good chuckle, but not everyone felt that way. One of the program managers thought that this was unprofessional, but we didn't think he was very funny either. Get this: seven years after that incident he referred to this incident as an example of how we had to be more professional. Seven years later? Really? Dude, you gotta let go of that. But it got me thinking: what are the unofficial rules of humor in the work place? Since our goal is to be effective, what's effective and ineffective?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We once got an email asking what the process was for retiring a corporate wide system. I suggested that the system get a trailer and pink flamingo's in Florida. The email had a decent size distribution list and I got some interesting feedback. One person thanked me, saying that the email had made their day. Other folks bantered back and forth about out retirement destinations around the country for their systems. One manager said I shouldn't send emails like that. Interesting. Do people get less funny the higher up the management food chain they get? Again, what should we be doing or not doing?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">First of all, as one person has said, 'humor is like oil in a machine' - helps to smooth things out. Humor is part of human interaction - makes life enjoyable, smooths out rough spots. So humor definitely has a place in our work with others.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We somethings think that we're funnier than we really are - don't get too excited about something you think is funny. I'd say be sober about your humor, but that just doesn't sound right ;-)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It's probably best to avoid humor in written communication since you don't know where it will go. Written communication tends to loose context and expression, so it can go bad without intending too. A document can be around for years. Humor in customer deliverables is a bad idea - like saying the system will generate sandwiches! That was a bad idea on my part.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We allow our selves to get distracted with email, text messages, twitter, Facebook, etc... I had to laugh, someone on Facebook said that Facebook is like the fridge: we're always opening it to see if there's something to eat. It's true! But is it effective?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So why do we do it? Linda Stone, who coined the term Continuous Partial Attention, said this, "to be busy, to be connected, is to be alive, to be recognized, and to matter." This flows out of our world view of who we are. It's like when we were kids, we craved attention from those other kids around us. In that case there may be 10-20. On the internet, we think we're on a stage with millions watching. If our identify comes from feeling connected, then we've got to reassess where our value comes from.</span></div>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-1953362580373987132012-04-27T20:45:00.000-04:002012-04-27T20:45:08.067-04:00Meetings: Protect Your Calendar<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Your calendar should reflect what your working on and what your goals are. Think of your calendar as a place where time is blocked out to do things. Too often we think of our calendars as a place just for meetings. Then what happens is someone sees a blank spot and schedules another meeting. Before you know it, your day is mostly meetings. Some people have this odd feeling of accomplishment when their days ARE filled with meetings, “look at me, I’m really busy.” Busy isn’t what we should be striving for, we should be striving for effective. If your day is filled with meetings, then you’re ineffective. Period. Yeah you might have a day filled with meetings once in a while. That happens. But every week? That’s just plain ineffective.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>George Couros</b> (@gcouros) presentation was titled, <b>140 Characters of Kindness</b>, addressing the issue head on. He shared a powerful moment when he put a video of his dog just before it died in cyberspace, and he got someone he totally didn't know asking him how he was doing, checking in - people he didn't know. I thought about the homeless guy down near Starbucks and how his face lit up when I stopped to ask him how he was doing. Same thing happens in cyberspace. It was interesting that just before Couros' presentation, <b>Michelle Tarby</b> (@tarbyM) talked about <b>What Happens When Real Time goes Really Wrong</b> - what happens when someone sets up a rumor site about an organization - can we make it stop? This happened at LeMoyne college and folks kept asking her to make it stop. To me this speaks of the pain that's caused when we get sloppy with our words online, when untruths are shared. This isn't totally a problem with those setting up the rumor site, it might suggest that people are trying to discover the truth or work out ideas online and that comes across as an attack. Tarby's advice was to be patient. Not usually a virtue that we find in great abundance! <b>Jeff Pulver</b> (@jeffpulver) had a very interesting recounting of his history with social media in his talk, <b>Being Vulnerable In the Era of the Real-Time Web</b>. First, the use of the word 'vulnerable' usually implies a lack of power in a negative sense, so it was refreshing to hear him speak of this as a desirable virtue. His history as a teenager looking for friends and how it brought him to social media was a gem of an insight because his social media technology was Ham radio, since Facebook et al had appeared on the scene. I remember my Dad using his Ham equipment and have never thought of it as a precursor to social media. I couldn't pass the code requirement! His simple observation in the power of someone repeating what you say was right on - how we crave to see our stuff retweeted, how good that makes us feel. His advice: be people first, be real. Again, our words matter and we need to be conscious that it's people out there reading our stuff.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Bob O'Brien</b> (@ClevelandBob)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Okay, so given all of the above, we then had this presentation, here's the short story: O'Brien is pissed that Lebrone James didn't join the home town basketball team. The good news is that (1) O'Brien is passionate about basketball, and (2) he was able to extend his reach through social media to help his cause. Here's the bad news: he used social media to organize and coordinate the saying of hateful things against Lebrone at a home game. I'm sitting there thinking that Lebrone is a person who puts on his pants like the rest of us and probably likes to be respected just as much as the next person. I think the golden rule applies online too, right? I'm also thinking that when we come online to initiate some cause we need some sense of perspective - it's a guy playing basketball. Do we need to harness the masses of the internet to chant rude stuff at LeBrone? I know that people are passionate about different things - so I respect that, but, basketball? SOPA I can see, but LeBrone? I'm wondering if this goes back to an earlier point that we under estimate the impact of our words. I was really sad about this presentation and hope that O'Brien will use the 'success' of what he learned to do something kind and meaningful. Maybe this is an age issue: a young college student is more apt to bring his unrestrained passion online than someone who's been around the block a few times. That also brought up a question of how do we define 'success' on the internet. </span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We're people first</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Our words have impact</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We consistently under estimate the impact of our words</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We need a sense of </span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">proportion</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> - is our issue worth fighting over?</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Retweet: people are really jazzed when you repeat what they say or flag your post</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Be patient</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">People who we perceive as being super stars put on their pants like everyone else</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Be real</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Kindness matters on the web</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Remember the six degrees of Kevin Bacon? This is where the idea comes from. In this case it's where every actor in Hollywood is 'related' to Bacon by 6 movies. Turns out that it's actually 2.6!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">People that are connectors are powerful in the flow of ideas and communications.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">While there's a natural talent that connectors have, the ability to create relationships with people, the interesting thing is that I think anyone can be a connector to some degree. The keys seem to be:</span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It takes some effort to systematically meet and reach out to people. While this comes naturally to some folks, it's not to others, but they can still do it. Maybe we think that it's easy for that person over there, but not us, then don't make the effort.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">We need to connect to people in different 'worlds' or contexts. Just connecting with people in our work environment, while important, isn't enough - we need variety. Twitter seems to be good for this, where as Facebook seems to emphasize people we already know.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The connections with others don't need to be deep. Obviously the more deep relationships we have, the more we're overloaded. Sometimes we think we need to have these deeper relationships to be meaningful. Granted if you don't have many of these things, that's not healthy - but that's usually not the problem. We don't need to be able to go out to dinner with everyone we know, just need to know enough to be intelligent about the other person.</span></li>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If we do this 10% better, we'll have a healthier set of relationships that we can use to more effectively help other people with and increase our ability to communicate.</span><br />
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<br />Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-60258684642239398412012-04-20T14:58:00.001-04:002012-04-20T14:59:46.516-04:00#140cuse Social Media Conference - Part 1<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Went to the <a href="http://140cuse.com/">140cuse </a>conference on social media and wanted to share some of my thoughts - I'll do this over several postings.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The first thing that's interesting about this conference was the format: each speaker got 10 minutes. At first I thought that that wasn't going to work so well, but proved to be valuable since it forced people to get to the main point and got a lot more content. It was also interesting to see what worked in presentations and what didn't. Starting with a story was key - presenters that did this really engaged the audience quickly, like Alexis Ohanian from Reddit, who spoke on how the internet was used to protest against SOPA and George Couros who spoke on education and kindness on the web. Slides with lots of bullets and text totally didn't work. Maybe for a business meeting with lot's of data, but not with this crowd and 10minutes. Maybe more business meetings should be 10 minutes! Actually, any more than 4 slides, real simple - didn't usually work. Another things that was interesting to was was those who were 'acting excited' and those who were really sincere. I'm sure all the speakers sincerely believed in their projects and presentations, but some came across as fake. Hype the idea, not me.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It was interesting to see how twitter was used during the conference. There seemed to be three types of tweets: (1) cheer leaders, (2) repeaters, and (3) commentary. The first seemed to be trying to get the energy level of the crowd up - for me, I got a little tired of it, but someone was excited, so let them be excited! The second, the repeaters - a lot of traffic in this category - would repeat things that were being said in the meeting. It was a like an online note taking. I wonder if this was helpful to people who were only experiencing the conference via twitter. It's a kind of reporting, so I'm sure it's helpful, if for nothing more than the public record. Those tweets that were more commentary, were people trying to add value to what they were hearing, which I think was the most interesting. This category didn't have a lot of traffic. One interesting thing about the tweets was that there were all positive - which was good. Maybe the cheer leaders had something to do with that! I mean, who can be negative when every other tweet is 'yeah, this rocks!!'</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So here's my review of two of the presentations.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">How You Can Save Thousands of Dollars a Year Through The Use of Social Media</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">by Lauren Greutman</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This was probably one of the most interesting presentations. Greutman told her story of how her family was severely in debt - so she quit her job (!) and turned her attention full time to getting out of debt. This involved getting really, really smart about coupons and sales. She started to use social media to find out more info and spread the word on what she knew. What it showed me was that the barriers to entry for social media are low and can be figured out by just jumping in and trying. This was a super practical, positive and high impact effort that Greutman engaged in - this is what we in social media live for.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The War on Distraction </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">by Matthew Koll</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was excited to hear what he said because I think this is a super big problem with social media. I mean galactically huge. Koll was trying to make a connection between distraction (lots of useless email, being pulled by the facebook red circle,...) and 'enemies of the enlightenment'. He was referring to people that make false statements online and not letting that go by. Like the number of people that don't believe in global warming and evolution. Enemies of the enlightenment? Huh? No matter where you stand on these topics, the debate of science will always be with us - does he think the final word on those topics has been spoken? It was kind of scary - like we need to shut those people down. He seemed to be a big fan of fact checking sites. What's funny is that the opinion columns of many papers mock those fact checking sites by showing that they are frequently not checking the facts themselves or are debating things are not intended to be facts. If his point was that dialog and content that isn't well thought out is a distraction, I guess that could be an issue and we know there's plenty of that out on the internet - but who decides? Koll was a huge disappointment.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">More to come...</span>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.com303 University Ave, Syracuse, NY 13210, USA43.040163454456817 -76.13396644592285243.03871295445682 -76.136433945922846 43.041613954456814 -76.131498945922857tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-7604022737227702702012-04-13T16:08:00.000-04:002012-04-13T16:10:29.034-04:00Meetings: You Should Say No More OftenYou get invited to a meeting – in fact you probably get asked to attend meetings many times a day. If you’re in a virtual environment where you get electronic requests to dial in, there’s usually a simple ‘Accept’, ‘Reject’, and ‘Tentative’ button to acknowledge the request. It’s so easy to hit that ‘Accept’ request button if it says you have time on your calendar. Guess what?<br /><br />YOU CAN SAY NO! <br /><br />In fact, you should probably say ‘no’! You should probably say no ½ the time! I’m serious! Just say no! Yeah you have to think about it: are you a key decision maker, who’s doing the ask, and do you have some key deliverable to present, but most of the time you should say no. Manager Tools business consultants, Mark Horstman and Mike Auzenne in their podcast, Calendar Control – Say No, advocate this very practice – say no. Bias towards no. Say no frequently. <br /><br />Listen: you won’t be evaluated at the end of the year on how many meetings you went to or how ‘busy’ you were with meetings. You’ll be assessed on what you got done. Saying no frees up time to get work done.<br /><br />DO: Open your calendar right now and decline a meeting – RIGHT NOW<br /><br />DO: Say NO to a meeting today.<br /><br />DO: Say no to a meeting everyday this week!Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-34679184447747510142012-04-05T17:42:00.003-04:002012-04-05T17:44:20.156-04:00Meetings: Is Your Meeting Necessary?Is there really a need to have a meeting? I mean, REALLY need one? Can the meeting objectives (if there are any) be accomplished through a memo, email, or a phone call to someone? When you schedule a meeting, it’s like you’re going to the organization and asking them to fund a project. Your asking people to set aside time and they only have so much to give. In the book Meeting Excellence, the first chapter is titled, “Is This Meeting Necessary?”. That IS the question! In Read Before Our Next Meeting, Pittampalli says that people can read, so send them a memo! People should do work BEFORE the meeting and make decisions AT the meeting. <br /><br />Making a withdrawal from the ‘time bank’ of the company is a big deal. Have too many meetings and you might get someone laid off. 30minutes doesn’t seem like much. Multiply that times hundreds of employees who think the same and go ahead and schedule that meeting and that’s some serious time/money. Your bias should be to not have the meeting. In today’s meeting culture the bias is to have the meeting. And today’s meeting culture is killing us.<br /><br />DO: Pick up the phone and call someone instead of having the meeting!<br /><br />DO: Can you leverage some social media in the company to have the dialog, list a discussion forum, company twitter like tool?Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-80632308575203902472012-03-30T08:44:00.003-04:002012-03-30T08:49:03.425-04:00Meetings: End on Time<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; text-align: -webkit-auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.917969); "></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span>Not that this has ever happened to you...</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span>The meeting you’re attending over runs by 10-15 minutes, which impacts your next meeting, which means you miss stuff in the next meeting so you don’t get what’s going on so you re-ask about ground already covered, that impacts, so the meeting drags out longer than intended, which… and on it goes. Think dominos. One domino crashes into the effectiveness of the next.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span>It’s a respect thing. Over run a meeting and you’re impact other people and it’s not just me impacting you. It’s me impacting the 5 people in my meeting that impacts the five meetings their attending, which impacts the 25 people in all those meetings, etc.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span>Why do we over run meetings? TONS of reasons. Lots to talk about. Knotty problem. The guy that has an opinion on everything. Okay, so there’s more stuff to do – what else is new?? Manage it, don’t let it manage you.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span>Ending on time is about RESPECT.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span>Ending on time is about forcing DECISIONS.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span>You can always have another meeting or discuss via email those items you don’t get to.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "><span>Things you can do:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "></p><ul><li><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: arial; ">Give a five minute warning before the end of the meeting, say, “Let’s do a time check, we have five minutes left. Let’s summarize the action items.”</span></li><li><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: arial; ">Give a 1 minute warning</span></li><li><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: arial; ">Have a parking lot for the stuff you can’t cover. More on the parking lot later.</span></li></ul><p></p><div style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Georgia, serif; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><p></p>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-6616758528361905532012-03-23T19:26:00.001-04:002012-03-23T19:27:39.273-04:00Meetings: Start on TimeHow often has this happened to you? <br /><br />You’re on time for a meeting and the organizer is running 3-5 minutes late. When they finally do show up, they say, “we’ll give everyone else a few minutes to show up.” When the meeting finally does get started, it’s running 8-10 minutes late. <br /><br />Those in the meeting made the effort to be there on time and they’re waiting. There’s a respect issue here: those on time made the effort to be there and their told to wait. Given the number of meetings that we have, this is also a productivity issue. Late means less time to get the work of the meeting done.<br /><br />If you start late then people will think it’s okay to come in late. A 9:00am meeting can shift to 9:15. Then a 9:15 meeting gets rescheduled to 9:30 to accommodate folks. The organizer thinks that they need to change the time because people are coming late (because the organizer starts late).<br /><br />DO: Be clear about the start time. Taken care of by electronic appointment systems, but if you’re emailing a group of people to meet at Panera’s resturant, it’ll be less clear.<br /><br />DO: Start on time! You can start the meeting by saying, “The clock says it’s time to start, so I’d like to welcome you to the ….”.<br /><br />DO: Start talking at the start time, even if people are still coming in or milling around.<br /><br />DO: No one in the meeting? Start talking anyway.<br /><br />DO: Are you a preacher? Start that service on time. Hundreds of reasons why: new people, kids, professionals – all kinds of implications. Just do it.Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-73689601248517516422011-08-30T12:00:00.003-04:002011-08-30T12:07:29.896-04:00Sharepoint Planning: Application ManagementWhen deploying sharepoint we need to ask the key question: will we be allowing the deployment of applications built on top of that environment? If yes, then defining the process for how those applications will be deployed and who gets involved will be key. Some key questions:<div>
<br /></div><div>Will your environment develop applications for organizations or will you allow other organizations to develop their own and send to you?</div><div>
<br /></div><div>Will you manage the code that others provide to you?</div><div>
<br /></div><div>You'll want to test the code before it goes out - will you do a full test of functionality, or focus on security and performance?</div><div>
<br /></div><div>What role will the organization that builds the application play in testing?</div><div>
<br /></div><div>Who is the primary point of contact for any code delivered to your environment?</div><div>
<br /></div><div>Who is responsible for maintaining the code? Suppose someone calls your help desk - where will the help request be routed?</div><div>
<br /></div><div>Over the next years, how will you maintain the code? Will you have a schedule to revisit the code with the authors? Code out of sight is out of mind and that's not a good thing.</div><div>
<br /></div><div>The deliverable here should be a documented process for how your users will engage your group to deploy custom built applications.</div>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-20548523260205239602010-09-30T21:58:00.003-04:002010-09-30T22:09:22.221-04:00Will 1/3 of you please stand up and leave the roomLet's suppose you're running a meeting with, say, 30 people or more. You look around the room and see that 1/3 of the people are doing IM, email, surfing, doing the blackberry, etc. It's fairly easy to tell those from the people that are using their laptops to take notes. What can you conclude?<div><br /></div><div>1. 1/3 of the people didn't need to be invited - you've got too many people there</div><div><br /></div><div>2. You'll take a 1/3 hit on productivity, because you'll be explaining things again</div><div><br /></div><div>3. You're agenda isn't resulting in action and the meeting is probably just the mutual sharing of profound ignorance.</div><div><br /></div><div>Just getting people together face to face to 'just get this thing done' doesn't work, and getting 'everyone together' is usually a waste of time and resources unless they all walk away with action. Sure 'sharing' and 'getting everyone on the same page' has value, but at what cost?</div><div><br /></div><div>If you're in a meeting, doing IM, email, blackberry, surfing, etc. it's not okay. It's unprofessional. It's rude. It's a waste of company resource. No, you can't effectively multi-task. No, you're not that important. You send the message that the other person's time is not valuable.</div>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-41764851398191644552010-07-16T09:25:00.004-04:002010-07-16T13:21:41.748-04:00Toxic People Curve<div>Here's a problem - when you're dealing with a toxic person, especially when managing a toxic person, there is the illusion that some coaching will change things and we can get on with life. Unless the toxic person is off the charts, most of these people have some very good skills that we'd kind of like to keep. So we'll send them to a conflict resolution class and move on. The problem is that these people may require way, way more energy that we think.</div><div><br /></div>Seth Godin nails this: the gap between the toxic person and other people is huge, a vertical cliff. The angry person isn't just like you but angry, their in a class by themselves. See Seth's blog <a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2008/05/angry-people-ar.html">posting </a>on this. We can't just send them to a class. If you have one who works for you, then giving them immediate feedback is important and be prepared for late stage coaching (i.e. get ready to fire them). If you work for one, realize that hope is not right around the corner. Start looking for another job.<div><br /></div><div>Like Seth says, there are too many people who are way easier to work with. Go work with them.</div>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-64954195419123958752010-07-03T19:39:00.006-04:002010-07-03T21:00:39.128-04:00Toxic Team LeadThere's nothing worse than a toxic boss, team lead, or project manager. Their presence on the team impacts home life, team productivity, people's health, etc. Here are some tips for dealing with one:<div><br /></div><div>Tell you spouse: let your spouse know what's going on. The toxic lead is going to have an impact for a long time, so be prepared by starting at home.</div><div><br /></div><div>Leave it at the office: this is super hard, but you need to protect your family. Don't sit and spin on the situation or a conversation. The temptation is to sit and replay situations and conversations - don't. If you need to write your thoughts down, great, but get it out of your head. Don't wake up with the situation in your head. What you go to bed with is what you'll wake up with. Focus on your wife, your faith - anything else, but not them. Make a pact with yourself - they will not hold you hostage.</div><div><br /></div><div>Self assessment: there are times when we contribute to the toxic relationship to varying degrees. This can be due to communication style, confusion over roles, or maybe you're just not doing your job. It's time to be honest. Make sure you're not toxic and this lead is trying to protect themselves.</div><div><br /></div><div>Get feedback: if you can get feedback from other stakeholders - find out if they think you're doing your job. Sometimes people have a skills center manager and may have an opportunity to get a quarterly or mid year assessment. This is a good way to gauge if you're contributing to the problem.</div><div><br /></div><div>It's not you: you can walk away from a conversation (or battle) with your team lead and feel like crap, feel like you're a looser, have failed, and on it goes. You are a valuable contributor to your organization - you have skills and ability. You are important. Don't let them define who you are.</div><div><br /></div><div>Don't gossip with co-workers: the temptation is to get your buddies together and say 'man, you should see what she did today...' - it'll feel good, but it's unprofessional.</div><div><br /></div><div>Be clear about roles: part of the problem with a toxic lead is that they may think they can give you direction on things that their not responsible for. Matrix organizations can really add to the problem here. Be sure you know who is supposed to give you direction. Know who is in the food chain - you may have to go to the person who is giving you direction and their team lead and get their help in resolving the confusion.</div><div><br /></div><div>Short answers: the more you give to a toxic lead, the worse things can get. Yes, no, and clarifying statements about tasks are best.</div><div><br /></div><div>Prep, prep, prep: I had one toxic lead who loved to dig and pick. When I spent the time to get the work product in order, had it peer reviewed and had really thought through it, things went much better. You'd like to think you can work questions out or details with the team lead, but not when their toxic.</div><div><br /></div><div>Communication style: remember that your lead may have a communication style that their not even aware of and may be the opposite of yours. Your lead may be very commanding and you may be very conversational. Learn to communicate in their style.</div><div><br /></div><div>Your words: be polite and don't let anger in. You may be flustered in the conversation and afterwards wish you had said this or that. Don't dwell on it. There are usually (or always) better things to say, but there are no magic words that will shut the lead down or make them into a nice person. Ain't going to happen. Drive on.</div><div><br /></div><div>The system is staked against you: Remember the conversations are going to be stacked against you. They have the role power and they probably got to their position because their a good talker. Unless you're really good at this kind of dueling, you'll probably walk away from the conversations thinking you lost and didn't say the right stuff. Be okay with that. Focus forward.</div><div><br /></div><div>Stay focused on task: know what your tasks are, when their due, and what the closure criteria. If you can't get these, establish your own and work to that. If you have to establish your own, be aggressive. At the end of the day the only thing that will matter is: did you get your task done and did you do it well.</div><div><br /></div><div>Your probably being setup: when they talk to you, they maybe taking notes on what you've been assigned and did you do it. They'll ask loaded questions - don't get sucked in. The temptation is to push back and do 'passive aggressive'. He or she is waiting for that and will nail you on it.</div><div><br /></div><div>Take notes: if they tell you to do something, accuse you, etc. keep a log. You may be asked at some point to provide input - chances are if you're having problems, other people are having problems and HR may be a phone call away from getting involved.</div><div><br /></div><div>Get help: is there someone who can counsel you through this and provide some air cover? Be careful not to gossip with them or dump on them. Their not there to carry your load, but they can help.</div><div><br /></div><div>Lead emoting: you're team lead may emotionally dump (or vomit) on you. You'll probably come away from the conversation thinking, "what the heck did they want me to say?!?". These kind of conversations are very hard - they create a story where things are very bad, they can't do anything, and look at all the things you did wrong. Then they expect to have a dialog. Don't dialog. Say, "thanks for the feedback, let me think about what you've said." You may even ask if there's something specific they want you to do.</div><div><br /></div><div>Exit strategy: Get your resume up to date: it may be time to move on. Sometimes these situations can be waited out - the lead is a climber and will be on to the next assignment, maybe the project has a deadline coming up and people will move on, etc. Be realistic and start the process for finding something else.</div><div><br /></div><div>Don't play the game: you may try and get clever about word games and situations - don't. And don't be looking for vengeance. "Vengeance is mine, I will repay says the Lord"</div><div><br /></div><div>Get exercise: I'm going to sound like your mother here, but get exercise to burn off the tension, and loosen up. Eat right (stay away from alcohol, sugar, etc), take extra multi-vitamins and get enough sleep. Your health will take a hit at this time, so take care of yourself. This is an emotional endurance race and endurance athletes know they need to take in extra nutrition or they'll bonk. You don't want to emotionally bonk.</div><div><br /></div><div>These are hard times and you'll need a cool head. There are probably a lot of reasons someone in leadership is toxic, but it's probably because they have tied role power to who they are. That's a dangerous tie and a no win situation.</div><div><br /></div><div>I once heard a biologist talk about the ebola virus - fearsome, terrible, deadly. The problem is that it kills the host that it needs and eventually dies out. There is not much ebola around because it kills the things it needs to efficiently and quickly. You may think your toxic lead is better at the game than you and you're probably right. Their destroying the organizations and teams they work with, and sadder still is that they may be destroying their families. Think of what their kids have to live with. Very sad. You're toxic lead will burn out and fail - no question.</div><div><br /></div><div>You know what? Their ship will sink and they will be part of the dark legacy that every organization has. I mean really, who wants that?!? It may be a rough spot on your career path that causes you pain and even to uproot and move, but time will wash them away and there will be too many good people to work for and with in the future.</div><div><br /></div><div>Hang in there, I know what you're going through - you'll make it</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-26819166972215469272010-04-07T07:53:00.004-04:002010-04-07T08:10:31.316-04:00I want every email, every meetingLet's say there's some miscommunication on your project - you thought she'd do it and she thought you'd do it. You have emails, she has notes to prove it. There's some urgency with this one because it'll impact schedule.<div><br /></div><div>One reaction I see a lot is that the project lead or program manager now wants to be included on all meetings and emails. There are several problems with this:</div><div><br /></div><div>This approach doesn't scale well on programs. A person can only process so much information and getting in the full stream of the project will just create more problems. For example, the lead will think they have to respond to more emails, or will have more information to not remember correctly.</div><div><br /></div><div>If there's a break down in communication, the lead needs to look at the team and figure out who was responsible for the communication and work with that person to plug the hole. </div><div><br /></div><div>Sometimes there are big battles or a lot of negative energy around the issue. Pick your battles - does this one really matter? Hey, stuff happens - see it as an opportunity to strengthen the team.</div><div><br /></div><div>I want to be careful with this comment: if you find yourself in a tug of war over who said what and by-god-I-have-emails-to-prove-it, take a step back and assess yourself. Are you reacting because there's a serious project impact or because someone challenged your authority? Almost anything can be whipped up in to a project impact. Anyone's sense of power can also impact a project.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-15381826332553176072010-04-02T17:00:00.001-04:002010-04-02T22:13:08.648-04:00Blogging in the Enterprise<div>Blogging on projects can be a great way to let folks know status of key tasks. I've used blogs to report progress towards key milestones, results of testing, and completion of key work products. The great thing about blogs is that when reporting progress, folks don't need to figure out who to send emails to and those people who don't want to get notifications any more can opt out of the alerting. Also, blogs provide a chronological history of the project - useful when having independent reviews or audits (or cya). Good use of blogs will also cut down on the number of meetings you'll need.<br /><br />Here are some recommendations:<br /><br />* Setup a blog for each project, assuming a project is around 2 months or more.<br /><br />* Each person on the project sets up an alert on the blog so they'll get a notification when something is posted.<br /><br />* For each deliverable, peer review, or formal review, make it part of the closure criteria to post.<br /><br />* Include instructions on when to blog in the projects collaboration playbook. If the blogging tool you use allows for tagging, give some basic guidelines<br /><br />* Blog postings should be simple - not lots of elaboration. Use links to supporting documentation.<br /><br /><br /><br /></div>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-11477743452646018722010-03-25T12:30:00.001-04:002010-03-25T15:12:51.348-04:00Standup Meetings<div>Coordination on a project team is really important - seems obvious right? One tool to getting there is to have a daily stand up meeting where each person gets 2 minutes or less to share the following:<br /></div><ul><br /><li>What have they accomplished</li><br /><li>What are the working on today</li><br /><li>What road blocks are they running into</li></ul><br /><div>First just knowing what each other are doing today is very helpful. I had frequent situations where someone will say, "you're working that? You may want to talk with Tom - he knows about that." Team members will raise questions that others can answer or there are situations that one team member doesn't even know what question to ask, but will get input. Team members also appreciate short meetings!</div><div> </div><br /><div>The key to the meeting is to keep it short and very crisp. How long depends on the size of the team meeting. I shoot for five to ten minutes. Everyone should have a minute or less. I've found that folks are usually around 15 seconds. There's always someone who goes over, but as the team has more of these, people settle into a rhythm.<br /></div><br /><div>Recommendations:<br /></div><ul><li>Send out a recurring meeting notice. If the team all sit near each other, schedule a conference room. Meeting should run through the life of the project.</li><br /><li>Meeting is best held first thing in the morning. I have people in different time zones, so I schedule as early as possible for everyone. I give people a 1/2 hr to get into the office, get their coffee, check email, etc. Don't let time be the hang up. If people can't make it until 11:30am ET, then do that.</li><br /><li>Meeting notice example: "The purpose of this meeting is to keep other members of the team informed as to what you're doing and if you need help. Each person gets 1 minutes or less to cover the following: (1) what have you accomplished since the last meeting, (2) What are you working on today, (3) Are there any impediments preventing you from meeting your commitments, and (4) is there any time today or the rest of the week when you won't be available."</li><br /><li>If people are meeting in a conference room - everyone stands up</li><br /><li>I go first so I can model how the meeting should run. I find myself sometimes just asking for today's tasks and not contributing myself. Not good. I'm a part of the team as much as anyone else and have my share to carry.</li><br /><li>I take notes - not of everything everyone says, but key issues.</li><br /><li>Don't be afraid to use the phrase, "let's take that off line". I find that being specific helps, "Tom, can you and Al take that off line and let me know before next stand up?"</li><br /><li>It's easy to forget the meeting once it happens, but my work isn't done. I review the list of notes and follow up with people.</li></ul>A great resource is the book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Death-Meeting-Leadership-Fable-About-Business/dp/0787968056/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1236876815&sr=8-1">Death By Meeting</a> by Patrick Lencioni. Very easy to read - it's a parable. It describes this approach along with some other meeting styles.<br /><div> </div><br /><div> </div>Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7359582793529620457.post-83298866782791140112009-11-06T12:43:00.000-05:002009-11-06T13:26:38.751-05:00Silence is GoldenWas on a call with a group of directors reviewing a presentation for some set of functionality to be delivered and the discussion was heated and lively. At one point I IM'ed the technical lead and asked what she thought - she'd been pretty quiet. She sent back: with so many geniuses on the phone, I don't think I'd have anything of value to add ;-)<br /><br />You know, the temptation is very high to jump in and share your mind. but sometimes it's just better to be quiet.Kurt Donathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06284417313774222928noreply@blogger.com